Ember & Co.
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Curated introductions,
for the ones who are ready.

Ember & Co. is a private, human-run matchmaking service for serious, established people. No swiping. No algorithms. Just a small team who reads every profile, hand-picks every match, and stays with you until you meet the right person.

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Approval rate
1 in 6
Avg. first intro
10 days
Member NPS
62
Your next introductionCurated
JW
James · 41 · London
James, 41
Hedge Fund Partner · London

“Ex-Goldman, Ironman finisher, non-negotiable Sunday roasts. Wants a partner, not an audience.”

Curator note: You’re both signature-tier, both explicit about wanting a real partnership. Give it a real evening.

How it works

Four steps. One team. Zero noise.

You’ll never see a stranger’s face until we’ve read both of your applications, spoken to at least one of you, and believed there’s a real reason to meet.

  1. 01
    Apply

    A thoughtful 15-minute application. We read every word.

  2. 02
    Get vetted

    If we can help you, we invite you in. If we can't, we tell you why.

  3. 03
    Choose your package

    Starter, Curated, or Signature — 3 to 6 hand-picked intros.

  4. 04
    Meet real people

    We introduce, you decide. We stay with you until it clicks.

A window into who’s here

Real, remarkable people.

Names and photos are private — below is a taste of the calibre of member you’re joining, drawn from our current roster with details blurred.

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  • MC
    Marcus · 39 · Austin
    Marcus, 39
    Austin
    CTO, Series C SaaS
  • SM
    Sofia · 36 · Miami
    Sofia, 36
    Miami
    Real Estate Principal
  • DO
    Daniel · 38 · Los Angeles
    Daniel, 38
    Los Angeles
    Neurosurgeon
  • PA
    Priya · 32 · San Francisco
    Priya, 32
    San Francisco
    Startup Founder
  • JW
    James · 41 · London
    James, 41
    London
    Hedge Fund Partner
  • AR
    Amelia · 34 · New York
    Amelia, 34
    New York
    Design Director
Packages

You pay for outcomes, not swipes.

Every package is a fixed number of hand-picked introductions, curated by a real human, backed by our meet-or-refund guarantee.

Starter
For the curious
$500/ package
  • 3 hand-picked intros
  • Founder-led matching
  • Feedback loop after each intro
Apply for Starter
Most chosen
Curated
Most popular
$800/ package
  • 4 hand-picked intros
  • Priority curation
  • Concierge scheduling
  • Quarterly strategy call
Apply for Curated
Signature
For the very intentional
$1500/ package
  • 6 hand-picked intros
  • Cross-city and international matching
  • Dedicated matchmaker
  • Style & profile consult
Apply for Signature

Our promise.

We built Ember & Co. because we watched too many extraordinary people give up on dating. So we made three promises to every member.

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  • Every match is human-curated.

    No algorithm decides who you meet. A real person reads your profile, and theirs, and stakes their reputation on the intro.

  • Meet-or-refund on every intro.

    If we fail to introduce you to someone real, ready, and matching your criteria, you get that intro back.

  • Your data never leaves us.

    We never sell, share, or advertise on your profile. Members are private, always.

Ready to meet someone worth meeting?

The application takes fifteen minutes. We reply within three days, with a real answer either way.

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